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10 Reasons Why You Should Be The Change, Part 2

Caleb Breakey - Saturday, May 24, 2014
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This is the second in a series exploring why we should live intentionally in the body of Christ. Hint: It's not about us; it's about other people. Feel free to read Part 1 before diving into this post.


For years, people in my church made semi-frequent jokes about charismatic believers (ours is less charismatic). They didn’t mean any harm, but these quips subtly stirred disunity by making our less charismatic church seem “better” or more “mature.” So I spoke up in love.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m all for joking and keeping it real with believers of all denominations. But when it comes to things that stir spiritual snootiness or disunity? Not good.

Now it’s been a long time since I’ve heard jokes about my charismatic brothers and sisters, whom I love dearly. A small change, some might say. But any time balance and perspective increases, the body of Christ wins.

Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind (1 Peter 3:8).


To stay in a church, whether you've been deeply hurt or not, requires a lifestyle of forgiveness. Because you will wrong others and others will wrong you. This is the nature of imperfection.

And it’s really a beautiful thing to be a part of.

Being the change in #Church is a beautiful thing to be a part of. #CalledtoStay

If our ultimate goal is to be like Jesus, then forgiving the unforgivable is the biggest step to achieving it. In fact, we’re never more like Christ than when we’re forgiving someone who doesn’t deserve it.

The proof is in the cross.

Then Peter came up and said to him “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times” (Matthew 18:21-22).


We all want to make a difference in this world. But not just a difference. A big difference. The problem with this desire is that we often overlook the small differences we can make along the way. The differences seen by no one but God: the Audience of One.

Like discovering your gift and serving the body with it.

Or engaging in vulnerable and sometimes awkward discussions with other
believers who are stuck in a spiritual rut. This kind of work doesn’t get noticed. It comes purely from a heart set on wanting to please Jesus—not the people around us.

Nothing is small to God when it's done in service to Him. #CalledtoStay 

Nothing is small to God when it’s done in service to him. Infiltrators—those who decide to live intentionally in the body of Christ—would all do well to take up the motto that small is the new big.

But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you (Matthew 6:3-4).


The foolish and ignorant think they’re the most spiritual people in their churches. The wise, however, seek out those who exude a deep love for Jesus and wish to glean from them.

Chances are that many of your fellow believers are farther along in their walk with Christ—if not in knowledge, then in maturity, and if not in maturity, then in love (2 Peter 1:5-8). It’s to your great advantage to listen to them and gain their wisdom.

Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another. #CalledtoStay #Proverbs

That said, we’re not supposed to soak in someone’s words just because he or she is older than us or has been a lifetime believer. This is a big mistake I made growing up. Instead, listen to those who know God, love God, and do what God says. Don’t assume there’s no one like that in your church. Start diving into conversations with the people in the body, and you’ll find them.

Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another (Proverbs 27:17).

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